
Pa Bob Gay relaxing at home after church

Born about 17 years before birth and death certificates were required by North Carolina’s vital statistics law in 1913, Robert “Pa Bob” Gay could only rely on his mother, Arie Gay’s memory, and other family members recollections for his day of birth.
On three different occasions Pa Bob used a different date of birth. For his US World War I Draft Card in 1917, Pa Bob wrote that he was born on April 5, 1896. Also, Pa Bob used April 5, 1896 as his date of birth to treeapply and receive a Social Security number in 1956..
Pa Bob used 1895 as his year of birth for his January 3, 1915 marriage to Ma Lillie.
Pa Bob chose July 25, 1896 as the authentic date of his birth. That was the date he celebrated and the date that the family knew about. It was also the date that Arie Gay, Pa Bob’s mother, gave to the enumerators who gathered census data in 1900.
On this day, we are sharing our recollections about Robert “Pa Bob” Gay.


Dr.Eunice Gay, daughter of the late Lucille Gay Blow, talks about Pa Bob as a religious man.
Freeman “Bro” Vines, Jr., son of Freeman Vines Sr. and Arie Gay Vines, shares his knowledge of what the world and society was like for Pa Bob and Ma Lillie and what kind person Pa Bob was.
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Robert J.”Bud” Gay is the son of Robert J. Gay, Sr. and Mary Spain Gay. Bud vividly tells about the emotion-packed times Pa Bob would meet them after they arrived home in North Carolina from Connecticut.



